Divorce and/or Parenting Circumstances

Initiating the Engagement

Consultation

Work with MPNE typically begins with an inquiry about mediation services. We offer a 30-to-40-minute consultation to discuss your circumstances and explain the principles of mediation and our practices. This session can be held individually or jointly, allowing each party to make an informed decision about proceeding with mediation and working with MPNE.

Agreements

Once you decide to proceed with MPNE, two agreements will be signed:

1. Agreement to Mediate: This includes consent to mediate, the roles of the mediator(s) and participants, and explains confidentiality.
2. Fee Agreement: This outlines the mediation sessions, necessary preparation work, associated fees, and payment responsibilities.

Preparing for Mediation

New Hampshire Financial Affidavit

The New Hampshire Financial Affidavit is typically required and should be completed to the best of your ability. This form will be reviewed during your individual confidential conversation.

Individual Confidential Conversations

Each party will have a 30-to-90-minute interview, conducted by phone, video, or in person upon request. This session provides an opportunity to comfortably and openly share your priorities and concerns. Your Financial Affidavit will be reviewed, and any open items will be discussed. These conversations are confidential unless express permission is granted to share specific points or the entire conversation. Flexible scheduling options are available, including weekdays, weekends, mornings, afternoons, and evenings.

With MPNE, you can expect compassionate and professional guidance as you navigate this challenging time.

Mediation Session(s)

Next, a mediation session is scheduled at the mutual agreement of the parties and mediator. Meetings can be held in person or remotely using a video tool such as ZOOM or SKYPE. The number of sessions is dependent upon the parties’ preparation and points of view.  At these sessions the mediator is responsible to design the discussion sequence and facilitate the conversation. The parties explore options, opportunities, and feasibility while jointly making necessary decisions.

The mediator records decisions and prepares the necessary documents to submit to the court.

Role of the Mediator

The mediator listens, organizes, facilitates and focuses the discussion. The mediator is a neutral or omni-partial professional interested in helping each party share both their perspectives and reasons why factors are important.   The mediator does not evaluate, offer advice, or make decisions. For complicated issues, the mediator may suggest that experts be consulted. For example – Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) or a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE).

Responsibilities of the Participants

A cornerstone of mediation is that the participants shape the path by which they to choose to go forward. The mediator organizes and facilitates the conversation; the participants make the decisions.  The parties’ role is to honestly and actively participate in the discussion, share pertinent information, and willingly explore options with which to go forward.